Raising Socially Conscious Children

Social consciousness is an important catalyst for positive changes in society.  It entails being tolerant of the differences between ourselves and others, and seeking ways to make things better for everyone.  Instilling these values in our children is a way that we as parents can make the world a better place for future generations.

It’s never too early to start encouraging social consciousness and responsibility in our kids.  Here are some of the things we can do:

• Get your kids involved in something social.  It can be sports, Boy or Girl Scouts, or even a play group that meets on a regular basis.  Studies have shown that adults who are involved in any kind of group are more likely to make positive contributions to society, so making social activities a part of our kids’ lives gives them a head start.  Just remember that it’s not enough to sign up and never show up.  Active participation is key.

• Encourage kids to be sensitive to the needs and feelings of their friends, siblings, and older family members.  This is the essence of social consciousness, only on a smaller scale.  Once they’ve mastered it, they will be more likely to apply it to the world at large.

• Introduce your child to diversity, and talk about how it is a good thing.  Find books and videos about different cultures and watch them together, go to festivals that celebrate diversity, and introduce your child to people from different backgrounds.  Diversity makes the world a more interesting place, and kids are more apt to take this to heart when they are young.

• Make socially responsible choices for yourself and your family.  When your children see you recycling, buying products made by disadvantaged persons, or donating used items to charity, they will realize that there are little things they can do to make a difference.

• Volunteer, and encourage your children to do the same.  Making it a fun family event while emphasizing how your work benefits others will make a lasting impression.  Before you know it, your kids will be inviting you along on volunteer missions.

Being socially conscious does not mean you have to give up your sense of self.  It simply means that you respect the uniqueness of others.  Taking the time to appreciate your own uniqueness is also important, and it’s good to encourage your children to do the same.  Consider activities such as having a family day each weekend in which everyone takes turns deciding what to do.  This will help your family appreciate the uniqueness of its members.

Passing our own social consciousness on to our children is a valuable gift to them and to society.  By promoting tolerance, understanding, and charity while they are young, we can give them the tools they need to change the world when they are older.

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